Post by rita on Dec 19, 2008 14:04:46 GMT -5
simplyDAZZLING: Straight up: best place for a drink is where?
Rita's advice: I'm not much for drinking...but I've heard lovely things about the Three Broomsticks. It seems to be a popular hangout for the Hogwarts kids and a great party spot. Go check it out if you haven't already.
Miss Confused: You know a guy likes you, but he’s convinced it’s better if you don’t date due to reasons I “couldn’t understand.” Best approach to fix that?
Rita's advice: Men are confusing, but I've found that deep down they're all the same. If you know he likes you, then don't give up! Don't bug him to the point of insanity, though. As a matter of fact, don't bother him at all. Shoot him little glances every once in a while, but don't approach him. Men love to play cat-and-mouse. Good luck, sweetie.
White Elizabeth: Okay, so I like a guy.... er, actually, no thats not right. I like more than one guy... which is one of the problems. I can't seem to figure out whom to like better or whom I want to be with. I haven't dated either of them, and neither make it easy. One of them is this real bad boy and the other one is a total sweet heart. And then comes in some other issues like not receiving any cooperation from my family or support towards ANY relationship I--specifically--choose. So, give me some advice.
Rita's advice: In my expert opinion, dearest, always choose the sweetheart. Bad guys are great fun and a temptation from God himself, but you'll always end up with a broken heart. The sweetheart may not wait forever, and if he is as sweet as you say then some other girl will notice. Let bad boys be bad boys; let him hurt someone else.
Love Struck: I’m different from most guys because of who I’m into, other guys. This makes some people uncomfortable and it hard for me to get dates.
I’m into this guy who I’m pretty sure is the same as me, but I don’t know how to approach him. Any advice?
Rita's advice: Always. This is a touchy subject, though. You need to just be you. Don't hide from anyone...if they don't like you for what you are they don't deserve you. As for this other guy: approach him. It will eat at your mind until you do, and if you don't you'll regret it forever. Best of luck to you!
Traitor: I recently started to avoid someone close to me because of who they’re into, I know this is wrong for me to do but the idea makes me want to puke. I want to make amends. Have any advice for doing so?
Rita's advice: I think in your position the best thing you can do is simply apologize and hope that they finish mending the bridge. Backstabbing is a hard thing to get over for anyone, and it may take a while. If you're sincere, than you can hope the other person will see it and be willing to forgive as best they can. It may take a while for the trust to return, but eventually it won't be so bad.
Unnoticed: There’s this guy that I’ve been into since my first year, and I’ve always been kinda obvious about it, but then he got together with this girl…Now she’s out of the picture though and I’m wondering if you can give me any advice so he’ll want me as bad as I've always wanted him.
Rita's advice: Let him know. Don't just be obvious about it, tell him. Right out flat---I like you. He probably already knows, and could have just been waiting for some sort of permanent sign. Keep it up.